What is a good age to start playing an instrument?

This is a question that we frequently receive from many parents. Some think their children may be missing out if they don’t start as soon as possible. Others consider it a good idea to wait for the kid to show some genuine interest. The truth is that both things can be appropriate, and there is no straight answer. The earlier someone is exposed to music, the greater the benefits will be in terms of musical development. It is essential to note that musical exposure does not necessarily equate with playing an instrument. Some children may feel overwhelmed by the physicality of an instrument. Listening to different types of music from an early age could have a profoundly positive impact on music cognition later on. Even though nursery rhymes play an important role in communication development, young children can also benefit from listening to more complex forms of music. This will be demonstrated later, as they will have assimilated a wider musical vocabulary.

When it comes to playing an instrument, it is essential to pay attention to the needs of every individual child. We are all kind of familiar with stories about child prodigies. This is not relevant to understanding how most kids would learn, and it could be detrimental when very high expectations are cast upon little children. In fact, everything that involves comparing one child to another could hinder the learning process and damage their sense of self. Of course, that “competition” can incentivise some to thrive, but it should not be used as a general rule to motivate infants.

We understand that the age of 5-6 is a good point to start having lessons. “The earlier the better” may not always be the right approach when it comes to individual lessons for children. Some children may not be ready at a certain point. They may find practising a bit overwhelming, or they may simply not be ready to enjoy music in that way. Playing an instrument could become a physically and mentally draining experience (practising for 10 minutes a day should already be enough when they are that young). If we add the pressure that the practice could entail, it may simply be too much for some. It is beneficial at this point to give the children plenty of space and be considerate of their needs. Playing has to be a playful experience. Children of all ages can benefit from music, but it is essential to understand when it is the right moment for them to start taking one-to-one lessons.

If your child has shown an interest in music or if you are considering lessons at this point, please do not hesitate to contact us at 07749 775974 or email us at info@musicspacelondon.com.